scout12,

Very sorry to hear your ExH is vanishing as a parent. It boggles my mind. Perhaps the greatest joy of my life is being a father and engaging with my children. I honestly can not understand the mindset others have walking away from that. It's going to be harder being a single parent 100% of the time, but take solace in the knowledge that you're doing the right thing for your son and you will have a bond with your son that your Ex will never know.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21