Again, I don’t think a little idle speculation about what’s going on with them is the problem; it’s when you haven’t truly let go that it’s a problem. I’m pretty sure Andrew has fully let go.
Btw Andrew glad to hear only 3 years of alimony left. What are your plans for that money once you’re done? Right now I’m putting extra towa
LOL - you seem pretty fixated on pointing out what a basket case I am and coming up with diagnosis.
Hi Andrew,
You're not a basket case. You do talk about your ex more often than many here and she does seem to occupy some headspace. It took months to get over my XGF, but years to get over my XW. I agree with kml that if you can say "I wouldn't take her back" (even if she apologized, claimed she saw the error of her ways and would change), that is a big milestone. And, of course, you want her to take up less and less headspace over time. (:
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