Your h truly does not know what he wants. He sounds depressed and is looking for something to fix that "spark" that he had w/you a while ago. I would listen and validate whenever I could.
As for purchasing an additional house at this time, I wouldn't do it. If he does eventually opt to leave, he can rent a place. You do not want to tie up your money right now because he is still sitting on the fence. Until he has become truly transparent in everything and has earned your trust again, I would sit back, listen and observe.
Try to remember...you can't fix him because you didn't break him. He has to do that and from where I'm sitting, he is still a very confused man who doesn't have a clue how to fix himself at the moment.
Try to keep the focus on you and watch your accounts!
Last edited by job; 02/09/2007:21 PM. Reason: added link to new thread
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
