This marriage isn't quite there yet, but I think we're all in need of some good news. *********************** I've read your book (DB) and others by various authors. I've learned and taken a little from here and there. But the most useful and most practicle has been from your book. I want to thank you. We've been married for eight years but the past three years have been the worst I have experienced. I never thought I could reach so low and feel so bad. I never thought it would happen to us. We were "perfect" together (for five years). But thanks to you things have been turning around. It has been months but patience is a virtue. In focusing on improving myself I slowly have begun to get my loving wife back. It isn't where I would like it to be yet but I can see and feel good things happening. It is more than wonderful. We are a family again and I can see the love in her eyes more each day. DB works. Thank you so much.