How are you doing? So glad that your husband is still at home. How is he doing? Does he now feel comfortable in his own skin or is he still jumpy and looking for any excuse to say "do you want me to leave?".
Happy New Year!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
He never mentioned 'should I leave' nor 'do you want me to leave'. He helped me with those chores and I have a feeling that he feels more comfortable and is eased. More and more he would share things and feelings with me, this is something that he seldom do in the past.
'The old marriage was dead' it is true, I was frightened when I got the idea years ago; however I reborn so is the marriage.
I am so happy to read that he's settling in and is comfortable in talking to you. Babe, you are a very patient woman who had faith in herself and her marriage. Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Hi, I hope everyone is safe and healthy; officially, husband came back home over a year now. Everything is fine, we both are more mature. I still go to French class, this year be the 6th year of learning.
The best decision I've ever made during husband's crisis is go to the school and take the class that I always love !
The idea of how Job, Cadet and this forum were helping me with my husband's crisis came to my mind often, I'm grateful for all your help and words of wisdom, just want to say hi and let you know that husband and I are doing great, life is sweet now, so, thank you !!
The French lessons still going on; look back, that's the best thing I did for myself - go to the class and learning again.
It is most wonderful to hear from you. I am so happy that you and H are doing great. Likewise to hear you are continuing the French lessons.
Focusing on self, detaching, some of the best things one can do for themselves during a spouse’s crisis. It’s a difficult journey the LBS walks. I’m sure you’ll agree, your wisdom is hard-earned. Thank you for popping in and sharing.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
I am so glad you came back for a visit. I am very happy to read that you and your h are doing great. Keep working on the French lessons!
Don't be a stranger. The door is always open for our family members.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
xoxo