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kml #2942532 01/19/23 05:46 PM
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I find it completely hilarious that no one challenged this comment about Italian men ;D
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I don't feel qualified to speak on the subject since I never dated one. And I also feel Italian Americans may be different than Italians in Italy. I have one good friend who is half Italian and he is a sweetie but his other half is El Salvadorean so who knows which side won out? In Italy, I've been inappropriately touched by strangers in the street when I was younger (don't wear shorts in Rome, ladies!) and once made out with a handsome Italian guy in an Irish karaoke bar in Rome (in my 50's) but that's about the extent of my experience with Italian men. The ones in Italy sure are handsome though.

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BTW - I sang Tom Petty's Breakdown, in case anyone's interested. wink

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Originally Posted by kml
BTW - I sang Tom Petty's Breakdown, in case anyone's interested. wink
I saw Petty in concert 2-3 times before he passed away. Great songs.

Great DB'ing song btw...

It's alright if you love me
It's alright if you don't
I'm not afraid of you running away, honey
I get the feeling you won't

He's OK either way (detachment) but playfully teasing saying I know you want me and won't leave (attraction/flirting)


Me:39 Ex-W:37
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S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
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Yes, my best of Tom Petty CD got me through my ex's affair and our reconciliation at that time. I'd play that CD and psych myself up for him coming home from work. Breakdown and also You Got Lucky :

Good love is hard to find
Good love is hard to find
You got lucky, babe
You got lucky, babe
When I found you

I saw him in concert once, after my divorce, so maybe around 2018?

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No, would have been earlier than that I think. 2015? 2016?

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Originally Posted by kml
BTW - I sang Tom Petty's Breakdown, in case anyone's interested. wink
K you know I'm always interested in your musical endeavors


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A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver
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I'm not much of a singer but Breakdown was one that I had worked on with my voice teacher. It's nice and low so I can generally avoid the awkward break in my voice between chest and head voice. And it fit my sassy mood that night, which is probably why I ended up making out with the handsome Italian guy. wink

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kml #2942655 01/21/23 06:30 PM
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Just a reminder to get out there and LIVE:

Got a call yesterday from the husband of a long time friend. A week ago she was fine, working out in the gym. Then she suddenly became jaundiced, has been in and out of the ER/hospital for several days, suspicious area on her pancreas, stent put into the pancreatic duct. May be pancreatic cancer but no positive biopsy yet. She’s about five years younger than me. frown

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yeah. we're now in that age range.


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kml #2942702 01/22/23 06:11 PM
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Yup. I’m praying it will turn out to be something inflammatory/ autoimmune instead, but cancer is definitely a concern at this point. And her husband, who is a few years older than me, isn’t really in great health, he has heart disease and has had surgery on his c-spine.

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