Context tonight was we needed to be together to have a conversation with S’s treatment team. After the conversation I said see ya gotta go. She said where are you going? I said out with friends.
After the conversation I said see ya gotta go. She said where are you going? I said out with friends.
Nice!
I think I remember in one of your threads that you suffer from some sort PTSD? Can you elaborate? I think that is why you are struggling with the concepts here. We have had guys on here with abandonment/PTSD issues and they tend to cling on with all their might which pushes the WW in further away.
Also can you add a signature like mine? Makes it easier for posters if they have a better understanding of your sitch.
Yes I am receiving intensive ptsd treatment for psychological injuries I sustained while performing my duties. I am at the stage of preparing for a return to work.
I am learning and working at (sometimes better and sometimes worse) resisting clinging behaviours
During a conversation when we were discussing urgent needs of S, W said I can’t treat her like a child. I can’t behavior modify her to move back in with me. I replied that I am not trying to do anything like that and that I control myself I don’t control not her anyone else. She said you don’t need to think about her wanting our bed any more and that she could hire a truck and movers and come and get 1/2 of the stuff from our home or she could take me to court. She was being aggressive and I said I needed to go I had to concentrate on my driving. She hung up.
