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Babe #2928317 01/12/22 12:46 AM
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Dear All, Hope all is well with you !
Husband moved home last May when there was outbreak of covid here; till today, he stayed.

Babe #2928358 01/12/22 07:41 PM
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Babe,

How are you doing? So glad that your husband is still at home. How is he doing? Does he now feel comfortable in his own skin or is he still jumpy and looking for any excuse to say "do you want me to leave?".

Happy New Year!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Babe #2928449 01/14/22 03:52 AM
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Job, happy new year !

He never mentioned 'should I leave' nor 'do you want me to leave'.
He helped me with those chores and I have a feeling that he feels more comfortable and is eased.
More and more he would share things and feelings with me, this is something that he seldom do in the past.

'The old marriage was dead' it is true, I was frightened when I got the idea years ago;
however I reborn so is the marriage.

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I am so happy to read that he's settling in and is comfortable in talking to you. Babe, you are a very patient woman who had faith in herself and her marriage. Keep up the good work!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Babe #2935490 07/01/22 07:56 AM
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Hi, I hope everyone is safe and healthy; officially, husband came back home over a year now. Everything is fine, we both are more mature. I still go to French class, this year be the 6th year of learning.

The best decision I've ever made during husband's crisis is go to the school and take the class that I always love !

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Babe #2935508 07/01/22 06:41 PM
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that's fabulous, Babe!!! I'm really happy for you !!!! Nice to see something positive smile xoxo


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver
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Dear Babe,
Nice to read all is going well for you and your H!
Keep on doing the French classes, I love that language.
xxx
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Me(45)EXH(44)
M:15 T:18, S19, S16 & S16
04/19-02/20 ILYB & OW1
12/20-08/22 OW2 (+pregnant-his child)
03/22-Divorce official
06/22-08/23 Reconnecting
09/23-possible back with OW2
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