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Ginger1 #2935238 06/23/22 05:12 PM
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No, he wasn’t offering that. I don’t have much more than 2 days a week myself. He was offering last minute maybe once a week. That didn’t work for me
Ah. Booty call. Now I see.

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This time I’m going to just go with the flow . And if I decide I would rather pursue a relationship elsewhere, I will
Seems like the perfect approach.

Maybe he's just (understandably) busy w/young kids right now and things might flourish as his time frees up in the future. Or, maybe you'll find another relationship in the meantime. Either way you're enjoy life and happy. Sounds like the whole idea of detachment and DB'ing principles.


This guy is 40 and has a 3 and a 6 year old.

It’s not you, is it? Lol

Ginger1 #2935241 06/23/22 05:24 PM
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This guy is 40 and has a 3 and a 6 year old.

It’s not you, is it? Lol
Haha! Wouldn't that be a small world? No, my son turned 7 a few months back so no luck.


Me:39 Ex-W:37
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BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
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Originally Posted by BL42
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This guy is 40 and has a 3 and a 6 year old.

It’s not you, is it? Lol
Haha! Wouldn't that be a small world? No, my son turned 7 a few months back so no luck.
Or should I say "No such luck" ;-)


Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
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BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
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No, he wasn’t offering that. I don’t have much more than 2 days a week myself. He was offering last minute maybe once a week. That didn’t work for me
Ah. Booty call. Now I see.

Well, minus the sex

More like a woman to spend time with when things got lonely

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