Gosh, I love the advice you give me here. Thank you.
I re-read what I was proposing to this. My god, have I learned nothing??!!

Yes: Way too passive aggressive
Yes: It really looks like I want to make contact.

I often read stories on here and see the advice "Post here before contacting your STBXW". Thank goodness I paid attention to this.

Let's see if i can link to a new post:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2929340#Post2929340