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It's a dynamic that can change. I speak to my XW again. It took years for most of my anger and other feelings surrounding the divorce to dissipate but it eventually happened.



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Originally Posted by Traveler
It's a dynamic that can change. I speak to my XW again. It took years for most of my anger and other feelings surrounding the divorce to dissipate but it eventually happened.
It will not change.

Unlike your children CW, our son isn't a minor. We have no reason to speak.

Exh has the life he's made with OW/2.0/Vista and I have my life. We are 6,000 miles apart physically and a universe apart in every other way that matters.


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Hoping you have a good weekend with no more disasters!

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so far ok ... scored an awesome air fryer deal yesterday. working on the kitchen to figure out placement for two crock pots, an insta-pot and the air fryer and toaster oven, lol. having difficulty with sleep still. moving forward. hope you're having a lovely weekend.
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just heard from the appraiser - my beloved car is NOT totaled!!! YAY!!!!
he also said we were extremely lucky ...


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Good thing you are such a good driver to get safely off the road with all that chaos.

Very happy for you that your car is going to be resurrected again - I know you love it a lot.

PS - How's Ozy the renegade rooster?


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Ody aka Odysseus, seems to have integrated into the flock. Yay! He's quiet, so hopefully I can keep him under the radar.


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Originally Posted by bttrfly
Ody aka Odysseus, seems to have integrated into the flock. Yay! He's quiet, so hopefully I can keep him under the radar.
Fabulous news! Although there is a that whole bit about a Mommy Chicken and a Daddy Chicken who are part of a committed relationship get "certain urges" ....

On the farm we used to mark one of the eggs under a brooding hen mainly to keep her using the same nest. She wouldn't look for a new spot as long as there was one of her eggs left. You may want to practice candling your eggs and marking the egg that stays would make sure you don't take a developing one by accident. We'd just hold them up to a lightbulb.

Although I expect you've already thought that through. When do roosters get "frisky"? I don't recall - we never bothered keeping track of such things.


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no idea; they haven't started laying again so i'm not thinking about it. I check for eggs 2x a day and won't be letting anyone's broodiness take hold.


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Chicken update for Andrew: either Blossom or Marigold gave an egg today, a very pleasant surprise! They stopped during fall molt in Octoberish-Septemberish time frame. Ody is on the top roost in the middle of the flock at bedtime. Very sweet.


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