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Never Forget your past so you dont repeat, and regret it... The grass isnt greener on the other side, its just a different shade, and time will show it..
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Mach40,

Glad you enjoyed Thanksgiving with your daughters and grand kids.

Seems to me the extended overseas work trip in 2022 comes at a great point for you and your situation. Remember to make the most of that time! Get out and enjoy life...exercise, eat well, get involved in activities and hobbies and meet new people. Try not to dwell at all on the separation or W, and focus on yourself and being happy.


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Well, little update. One positive thing has happened. I have lady living with me. I have known her for 15 years. Her name is Huni...



She is my cat, who has never ever lived in this house. She lived outside in her huge shed, like a little Queen, since 2010. Prior to that in Hawaii, outside only too. She didnt like the two male cats who lived in here and there...
But, 5 days ago, she came in, and hasn't left yet. She sleeps under my bed, and uses little box like a seasoned cat..
HooYah

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Haha, good stuff Mach. I am not much of a cat person myself (anyone want my daughter's cat? LOL). But glad to see you finding joy in things, good sign! You've got this!


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Not much to update, having Christmas morning with the kids/grands at her house, Just going to open presents, drink some coffee then leave.
Took my tree down 3 days ago..Kids have been to busy with youngest working at restaurant, and the oldest taking care of personal issue and kids.
Ona weird side note, lots weird dreams of her and I at functions and her always being courted, if that is the right word, by other men, and her reacting as if it is normal. Much subconscious, lol. Weird stuff. Not drinking, lol, just getting ready for my next trip to Australia next month and Christmas..


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My neck of the woods Mach, what’s your plans for Aus?

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Originally Posted by OnlyBent
My neck of the woods Mach, what’s your plans for Aus?

Merry Xmas
All depends on what the Local Government allows us to do. This Covid crap is like spin the wheel.
We have to do a few days self isolation as of this week. A month ago, it was two weeks/one week quarantine.
I am hoping to get out and see the area near Kingston/Canberra.. I havent looked the map, or for touristy things. Yet.


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Mach40,

Merry Christmas! Enjoy tomorrow morning with the kids and grandkids. Hope you make the most of your time in Australia and COVID doesn't impact the trip too much.


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Christmas was very nice. Grand Kids, Daughters and I all had good time..
If all goes well, I will be in Sydney next week for work, then down to Kingston/Canberra area.


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Let me know if you need any recommendations for Sydney or Canberra


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