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Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Actually, its quite the opposite. Everything you have been doing is showing you are quite fine with it. She does whatever she wants and you ask her on dates and buy her $100 bottles of wine, and celebrate holidays with her and take family pictures. So basically you say do whatever, Ill still be right here pining for you, not living your life, and making all decisions for myself based upon you.


We humans have a hard time "seeing" our own issues. Other people in our lives help shine light on these issues. Many of us here have worked through our own "red color glasses" and learned healthier ways of behaving. Ginger is pointing out one of the many areas to you.

There are times when the behavior above is perfectly acceptable. There are times when it is not. When you are healthy, you can easily discern which way to behave.


Another words - DETACHMENT

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Steve,

As Cadet mentioned about, please start a new thread and link this thread to your new one and vice versa. This thread is staying unlocked so that you can link both of them together. Thanks!


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Another 4+ day stretch with no updates from Steve_.........never a good thing with this one.

New Thread:

Steve_'s Journey forward

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