I don’t condone that at all. I just thought it was funny that your Lawyer said it. Even funnier now that I know she’s a woman.
Ok, but I think that taking someones personal property from a bedroom, boxing it up and putting it in the garage is the action equivilant to calling them a wh**e. So maybe we agree to disagree. I dont want to argue with you, youve been a great inspiration and I thank you for your help. And if I made you laugh, that makes this one of the best days in the last 8 months.
Well, found out this morning while leaving for airport to visit friend who was in motorcycle accident what stbxw is using Marriott points for. She is Headed out of town for weekend to celebrate her birthday. It makes me sad/mad because that was our plan, to travel once the kids were old enough to be left alone and they are just old enough this year. And while I’m happy to see my old friend, that doesn’t include s*x like she is getting so I’m jealous. I can see why lbh start new relationships so quickly.
Stbxw is much better gal than I am.
Last week, stbxw stated that the problem with our mr was we both were poor communicators. This is the first time she ever took any responsibility for our issues. I guess the difference is I am working on myself, she just jumped into a new relationship.
So I am less detached right now, hopefully can put it in the rear view mirror when I see my buddy.
And while I’m happy to see my old friend, that doesn’t include s*x like she is getting so I’m jealous. I can see why lbh start new relationships so quickly.
It's similar to why WAS/WWS do, no? Jumping into a new relationship is often easier than working on our issues, at least until those unresolved issues resurface and blow-up our next relationship.
It's apparently 36 days since I last contact my ex. Yesterday while training, a cute lady about 7 years younger than me and 80% of my fitness level tried 4x to start a conversation with me. I'm 90% certain I could have converted that into a date, and part of me wanted to, but that's not what I need just now.
Im getting by and feeling a little bit better each day.
My L seem to be pretty good. She already pointed out where stbxw's lawyer has been making some procedure mistakes.I'm glad she's on my team. She's given me a hug at the end of each meeting, which is nice When I went in there last week, I told L I didn't want to file, but the weekends events were the last straw. L explained how strategically it would benefit us to file first, so I said do it.
Im just bummed about stbxw's romantic weekend. I know i need to detach, but that was the future we planned. Now it's her future with OM funded with half of my retirement. Truly discouraging.
Chin up. Just another step in the process. Keep moving forward!
Yeah, I got a line on a god job but I cant accept until the D is done so I filed D to move forward. Actually feel like less of a victim and restored some small measure of control to my life. I acted instead of reacting to her L filing.
L asked me if stbxw had an epphinay would I take her back. I said the way stbxw hurt me, disrespected and continues to lie, it would be tough to take her back.I cant fault her for wanting to leave, I dont agree with it and I would have preferred we worked on the marriage, but I can fault her for the way it was handled, and the total disregard for me and my daughters as human beings. But that is what WWs do, just use people.
I dont really want to work again, and probably dont have to but younger daughter is going to college in the fall so Im going to need something to do.
