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Originally Posted By: LMBS
Is there really hope when you have already finalized the divorce?

There can always be HOPE as long as you choose.
However you need to let go, if you ever want a chance.


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2670,

You'll get better help if you start your own thread on the forum. Start it in Newcomers.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER
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Thank you for giving us hope.

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Great stuff Success. I know a big fear for many of us going through the last resort technique is that it's a dead end road.

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You know, since my WAW experience is still an open wound, perhaps my judgement is a bit off but a year and a half is a LONG time. I don't know, is there something wrong with me that I wouldn't want my wife back after that long. I feel as though once she sleeps with someone else...hasta levista baby...I already wasted 20 years with you...why would I go back after you sowed your wild oates? Maybe I'm bitter but I want her back before she's with another man...or she can stay gone. That's my limit for any R possibility. However I am SUPER PLEASED that you are happy and got your love back! I guess some people can move beyond that, I can't.


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14
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Success,

Your story is awesome and gives me hope. I really enjoyed reading your success story and made my day so far. I'm glad to see letting go is def different from giving up and a success story to follow.

Joejoe1


M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
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Originally Posted by 2670
My divorce goes final in the next couple weeks. She walked out and says she doesn't love me anymore. We have 3 kids and were married 10 years. Her mother is paying her atty fees and gave her an ultimatum that if she cancelled the divorce then wanted to file later she wouldn't pay for it.
My W is a completely different person now. She knows I'll do anything to keep the family together but has hardened her heart. The kids don't want it either but that doesn't matter to her either.
I think she has the "grass is always greener" syndrome going on right now.
I've done everything wrong and am now just hoping she will see the light sometime soon. I told her that I'll wait for her(another dumb move).
Need prayers and hope.

So it's been such a long time ... do you have an update for us?

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