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CW,

She will be 15 by the time I can move. Won’t the judge take what she wants into consideration?

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Originally Posted by kas99
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She will be 15 by the time I can move. Won’t the judge take what she wants into consideration?


They would take it into consideration now

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Kas99,

Of course, the judge would listen and consider D14's feelings, now or then. If your ex wants to be part of D14's life, and hasn't been convicted of abuse, I'd be surprised if he wound up with 0% custody. I see that happen more often when the kids are 16 or 17. Your attorney would be the best person to check-in with.

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CW,

He’s rarely home. She sent me a picture of his empty fridge and texted “I want to move. I want to move. I want to move”. S19 says H doesn’t want kids and that they all need to live with me. All H cares about is the OW. Interviewing an attorney tomorrow.

Only reason I bring this up is because H wants joint custody.

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D14 and S19 aren’t cutting him out they just won’t do overnights. It would be more like an hour a week when H isn’t busy.

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I would tell D14 the chances are better for custody/living with you if she moves in now (before official paperwork is in place). Is there really no way for the kids to work this out living together until you can move?

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