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#2874360 12/03/19 03:18 PM
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So I will probably look to get the Doc 1 more thing and call it a wraps. I will take her out to a nice dinner and hotel room stay for New Years so I am hoping she will be happy with that. While I think both of us are getting closer to having more serious conversations about our future I don't think either one of us is just quite ready.

She is just such a quality person. I was joking with her yesterday about buying her a couple of more gifts and she told me to be careful and not overspend. I just though that was really sweet and shows she is not one of those individuals that is concerned about how much money I spend on her.

Thinking about some more romantic stuff is hard as I don't want to come off as being cheesy either.


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What are her Love Languages? That can guide your present shopping.

I'm a person who does Acts of Service (because I want to receive Words of Affirmation). I would put a lot of effort into making things for my ex, when he (a Quality Time and Receiving Gifts guy) was actually much happier if he just circled the things he wanted in a catalogue and I bought them for him.

As a words of affirmation girl, the gifts he gave me that I liked best were simple (not expensive) pieces of jewelry that expressed his love (like a bracelet with an inscription inside).

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Acts of Service, physical touch. She loves it when she calls me with a problem at her home and I come over and fix it.


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So is there something you can give her that would count as an act of service gift? A physical touch gift could be a massage certificate...

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I could do like coupon books for my services. Trim the bushes, look at her sprinkler system, etc.


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Are those sexual innuendos?

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LOL!


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Check her oil?

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Lube the chassis


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
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