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ozman #2870436 11/01/19 10:41 PM
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So you are done. What does that mean? What are you going to do?

Stating you are done over and over again and changing nothing is meaningless.

Take a deep breath. Nothing that happened has changed things to the point where you have to act. I feel like you are being a bit impatient here. Sometimes the best action is no action.


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Ok thanks Steve. Deep breath


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ozman #2870489 11/02/19 06:32 PM
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W still refuses to talk about or give opinion on job opportunity I have. So I just make decision without her?


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ozman #2870494 11/02/19 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted by ozman
W still refuses to talk about or give opinion on job opportunity I have. So I just make decision without her?
She already gave you her opinion. Include her input in your decision process. Ask other IRL people their opinion. Weigh all the input and make a choice.


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ozman #2870497 11/02/19 10:17 PM
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I complicate things. Lol


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ozman #2870502 11/03/19 12:06 AM
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Be an alpha. Decide what you want and do it.


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I知 gonna do it. And I知 gonna crush it.

Also her stance has softened quite a bit. She says she wants it to be my decision and mine alone

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Originally Posted by ozman
I知 gonna do it. And I知 gonna crush it.


Go get em, Oz!!!!!


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I知 actually very excited about it. I知 so tired of debt. And I致e found a way out. It does however com with sone risk. But every successful person has taken a leap at some point right?


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You are a warrior Oz. Face your future and move forward.


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