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Originally Posted by CWarrior
Kas, I know you like numbers. I found a small study (23 participants) citing the median length of a rebound relationship entered into within 7 months of break-up as being 2 months. 70% of all adult relationships fail according to other studies, and many sites claim it's 90%+ for rebounds.


Thank you so much for this. It helps. I do like numbers. It still hasn’t hit. I haven’t seen him in 4 months and I’m praying that I’ve detached enough for this not to crush me when it does.

S19 said WAH offered to bring some firewood over so the nice thing is still on.

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I hope he is doing it because he still cares for you.

The first time my XW was having an affair on me and wanted to leave she would do things for me because she said "I felt sorry for him." I guess I was just some poor pathetic abandoned puppy dog she was going to be nice to as she delivered me to the pound. She didn't do it because she cared she just thought I was pathetic.


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I think I’m ready to file for D.

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Come on Kay you know you’re the last person on here who should be filing for divorce.

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Originally Posted by LH19
Come on Kay you know you’re the last person on here who should be filing for divorce.


He's had a girlfriend for at least a month (confirmed today). She's at his house now (S19 confirmed). He's paying me less than what he said he would before we moved. I was going to let it ride because I had hope but now I do not. My main concern now is protecting my kids financially.

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Nope.

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Ok I agree if it helps you financially.

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Originally Posted by LH19
Ok I agree if it helps you financially.


I was okay holding what I had as long as I was in the rental house that was in both our names. I took a gamble renting this house on my own. My gut told me there was someone else in July when I saw him in the hospital.

I feel sick.

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I've become a cliche. "Men don't walk out unless they have someone". Yep.

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Originally Posted by LH19
Ok I agree if it helps you financially.


Just curious why do you think I should wait?

My attorney is emailing me the complaint tonight. I want to do it before he figures out that I know. He's being pretty open about it. Everyone at his work knows. It's only a matter of time before this blows up. He just got his own place a month ago.

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