After she ran back to OM3, I gathered some intel. Here are excerpts of WW's text exchange with OM3 the day after RV. OM3: You F'n liar, you never cared about me. WW: I do. But doesn't matter actually. It matters how you feel. And I guess I don't make you feel loved. I'm sorry for that. OM3: I regret anything I ever told you that matters to me! My daughters name, why me and my mom don't talk, any and everything! Because you don't give a F! You showed it Saturday and you opened my eyes, thank you. WW: Wow. That hurts...okay. OM3: My XW was at least woman enough to tell me she was f'n someone else! Unlike you, making up s***! I've never been s*** to you. I want to die and just be gone from here. You will be the last person to ever hurt me. WW: Please don't. You will never be nothing to me. OM3: I'll F XW before I F you again. WW: Well you never got over her anyway OM3: G F yourself b****. Don't confuse me for you and Curtis. Again. Still can't admit it. I hope your life goes to hell. OM3: F you WW! You proved what I was to you Saturday! Deny it all you want, Curtis owns your heart! Curtis wasn't coaching 17 straight hours you MF whore. I'm going to [explicit, explicit, explicit] another b**** and I promise I'm going to send you pictures. OM3: Disappear from my life you piece of s****!!! I've never ever regretted anyone!!! But I regret you! WW: Yessir if that is what you want OM3: Everything I ever told you, I regret it! I regret every picture of my daughter I sent you. I regret you even knowing her name. OM3: You'll be getting pictures soon. I'm about to line them up. Not just one. You said you'd never hurt me and you did, intentionally! F you, Curtis and his parents, you g'dam slut! OM3: F you!!!!! F you!!!!! I wish the worst for you! If anyone deserves it, it's you. You deserve s***! That's what you deserve. You deserve to lay in s*** and lose everything. That would make me smile again. OM3: Look your kids in the face and tell them the only reason they were born was so you could get a f'n horse! Do that. You will hate me and regret me! I told you to never ever cross me. WW: What purpose would that serve? Hurting children? Doesn't change the fact that I love them. OM3: Your kids are better off without you. I F'N HATE YOU MORE THAN YOU CAN IMAGINE. Your excuses are beyond ridiculous and you're just pulling s*** out of your a$$. WW: I have thought that on more than one occasion...my kids better off without me. Without any help from you.
Wow! That is absolutely terrible the way he talked to her. I read the others advice and it seems right on point. As a woman I can tell you, if I were your WW I would be very confused right now and would panic at losing my safety net. If you just let her walk all over you and she knows you'll be there waiting, she will string you along. Don't let that happen.
Curtis, make like Nike and JUST DO IT. Your W doesn’t deserve to hear your thoughts and she won’t care anyway. If you have a plan for your life, make it happen and tell your W only what she needs to know.
Stalking her private messages is creepy, my dude. Just stop. Stop torturing yourself. Don’t just drop the rope, cut it. Good luck.
W 31, LBS - me H 29, WAS S 1.5 T 9 | M 3
06/19 - moved out 'on a break' 07/19 - wants to separate 08/19 - legal separation in progress