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phnix #2869173 10/22/19 05:57 PM
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Yes, what Ovr says: action instead of words.


WW H(me): 53
W: 48
T: 27 M: 22
S: 18
Piecing since 03/2016
Saw the light in the storm
phnix #2869186 10/22/19 06:42 PM
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I did not leave. She eventually begged for forgiveness and felt bad for how she behaved. Tried to make it up to my son by being very loving and affectionate with him.

As far as having a plan, I have already had to walk out of my own bedroom because she wouldn't leave. She claims it is her bedroom too but she eventually leaves and goes to the other room.

I really want to go no contact and communicate only the needs of our children but this drives her crazy.

phnix #2869187 10/22/19 06:51 PM
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So why do you care what she thinks if it helps you detach?

phnix #2869190 10/22/19 07:03 PM
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BB,

You will have to start a new thread.

I think it's very important to get your son out of those moments, when your WW is acting like she did on Sunday. You should relocate your keys in a spot she can't find. You son should not be subjected to her antics. And if she made declarations in front of your son, about you and him not going to church to benefit her standing in the community, think about what type of message has been communicated to him about church and his parents.

She is way out of control. Stop communicating with her, if she's in the room and won't leave, shrug your shoulders and go your way. (Don't literally shrug your shoulders), but don't give her the benefit of getting a reaction out of you. Stop reacting to her pettiness and childlessness.

Keep up the hard work.

Joejoe


M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
joejoe1 #2869218 10/22/19 08:41 PM
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