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Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: Ginger1] #2864904
09/10/19 09:25 PM
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kml,

I am so very sorry to hear about your BIL. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: kml] #2864908
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Ohmigosh KML... that sounds nightmarish. So sorry to hear you BIL is going through this. Praying for you and your family. (((HUGS)))


Me 51
H 46
B/G Twins 11
SD19
Legal SA - January 2019
Divorce filed - June 2019
Divorce final - November 2019

Together 14 years
Married 12 years
BD1 - May 2014
BD2 - September 14, 2018

Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: kml] #2864926
09/11/19 01:43 AM
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horrible! my brother from another mother had two bouts with sepsis that almost killed him. my prayers are with your bil, you and your family xoxoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
BD 4/6/15
D Final 12/23/16

Take what you want and leave the rest. No harm, no foul.
Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: kml] #2864935
09/11/19 03:59 AM
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Thanks everybody. He had another stroke overnight and the prognosis is dire. They are tweaking his antibiotics and having another staff meeting Friday but honestly, I think it's just to give the family time to come to grips with the idea of pulling the plug on the ventilator. I'm personally hoping that if he's not going to survive, that he dies naturally before then so my sister doesn't have to make that awful decision.

It really teaches two things - we all live in the moment. None of us are guaranteed the future.

Second, there are benefits to cancer as a way to die. You have time to knock some things off your bucket list. You have a chance to reconcile with people in your life. You have time to plan for your survivors. Sudden deaths like this deprive everybody of that closure.

Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: kml] #2864943
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So sorry to hear that your BIL is in such a bad way and fully understand the way you're thinking.

You are really doing it tough at the moment. I hope you're getting and doing what you need for yourself in amongst being a tower of strength for others. I also hope those others know how lucky they are to have you in their lives.


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S:22 S:20
M:24 T:26
BD:Aug 15
D:Sep 17
Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: kml] #2864954
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(((kml)))


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H52, W50
T27, M26
S21, D23
BD-9-Mar-16
D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18
I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good.
But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: kml] #2864965
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{{{{{{{kml}}}}}}} I'm so very sorry sweetheart xoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
BD 4/6/15
D Final 12/23/16

Take what you want and leave the rest. No harm, no foul.
Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: kml] #2864967
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So sorry Kml. (((HUGS)))


Me 51
H 46
B/G Twins 11
SD19
Legal SA - January 2019
Divorce filed - June 2019
Divorce final - November 2019

Together 14 years
Married 12 years
BD1 - May 2014
BD2 - September 14, 2018

Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: kml] #2864968
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Very sorry to hear.....prayers to you and your family.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Re: Gray Divorce Fallout [Re: kml] #2864982
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So sorry! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


Me 50, H51
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Divorce final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
1 adult daughter and bonus daughter-in-law from current H's first marriage
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