Divorce is happening

[kas99]

I knew he wouldn't answer but hey I offered to discuss alimony like adults. Child support is a set amount.

[kas99]

I want to die today (depression). So much pain. My car cost me $1200 to fix. I’ve lost my appetite again and I really should not lose anymore weight. I have a lot to be grateful for I’m just really down.

I can’t believe he’s gone after 30 years. My kids say he’s absolutely miserable. Been this way since week 2 (his happiness lasted a week). Isn’t he supposed to be happy?

[kas99]

He’s unhappy because of the kids. D17 is furious and says she’s never talking to him again. S19 is more upset than I originally thought. D14 isn’t all that happy. He sees the kids for an hour a week (their choice).

I did not see this coming. I thought they liked him more than me??

[kas99]

Listening to kids he’s not sad he just hates having to work so much. He got a 2nd job because divorce is expensive.

He doesn’t want me. Says he’s done. He misses D17 but not enough to reconcile. Y’all were right kids were never a factor in his decision. He’s free.

[kas99]

I read if someone leaves you after 20+ years it's 100% over. Is this true?

If my WAH knows I'm on new meds and am getting better does this increase my chances of him coming back years down the road? Please don't tell me that by that time I won't care anymore. I need hope today.

I've read a few stories of WAS's coming back after an addiction was dealt with. I've read stories of people taking cheaters back several years later once they saw since growth and change.

After 28 years is it too late?

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