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I have no idea how to link my previous thread from my phone. I just posted about H updating his relationship status to single on Facebook. I’m not sure when he did it.

I really want to ask him about it but I don’t see the point. I’m crushed.

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Lilly -

Do not confront him. Use all your strength to stop yourself. I know this is hard but do not confront him. It will only set back the gains you have made.

I hate to speculate about the WAS. It’s a WASte of energy. But here goes... he probably got upset about you telling him not to stay at your place and is having his own reaction. Not your problem.

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Thank you. I’m going to keep my head held high and continue being dark.

It would have been nice if he would have just hidden his status, instead of changing the status. Can’t give this too much more energy. I’ve already given it too much. Time for some GAL!

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It’s a plea for attention.

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I think maybe, idk though.

As much as I don’t want to care I want to flip out on him. Things feel bottled up right now. =\

I’m not going to, but wow this is hard!

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Okay I feel terrible!

Now H updated his profile picture and the chick that he’s interested in liked the picture. Ugh it makes me sick.

He did call kids and we were knee deep in cleaning so I told my son to tell him what we’re up to and that we’d have to call back.

He said that he was catching up on schoolwork so I guess that’s why he wasn’t about to call them once I laid out the boundary. I’m so disappointed in the way he’s handling things.

I know I just need to be strong and detach. This is so hard. My stomach is in knots.

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I’m about to watch the LRT I think that will help my thoughts from spiraling...

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Oh Lilly.

I unfriended/stopped following mine. Wasn't worth the grief of seeing what he was doing, saying or that he was online half the night on messenger..Best move I've made yet.


Me: 57 H:60
Married: 25 yrs
DB #1 June 4/19
"I love you forever" June 14/19
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I was think about it I had the option pulled up on my screen a few times too and just couldn’t execute!

I want to block him from social, my iPhone and just use email, but we have 2 kids.

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