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Quick recap

Married 27 years, together 30
Found out about his 18 month affair June 18
Did a fantastic amount of dancing about for 3 months whilst he pretended to want to save the M
finally told him no more Sept 18
He lives alone whilst he and OW now set themselves up as a 'legitimate couple'
Divorce petition issued by me
awaiting his cooperation
financial shennanigans slowly being revealed
financial situation rapidly deteriorating
can't extricate myself
3 fantastic adult sons
1 fantastic dog
several fantastic friends and close family

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So flipping excited as S2 and his partner are coming to stay for the weekend. Tomorrow all 3 sons and partners and grandsons are coming for a BBQ. Can't wait.

It's a monumental occasion because NOBODY was previously allowed to touch Hs very expensive BBQ because nobody else would do it properly. We don't care!!!

It's the first time in a year that I feel genuinely excited to see them whereas before I 'needed' to see them to support me emotionally.

It feels great. And liberating. And right.

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Congratulations, Yorkie! I hope that you have a wonderful weekend.


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Congratulations Yorkie!

I am so proud of you!

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Hope you enjoy and have a great family day . Keep the smiles coming x

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That's such lovely news. I hope you give that BBQ a run for its money. And if it gets a bit dinged up in the joyful chaos of your family day - well, so what? wink

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Yorkie,

I have not read your story, but I sure plan on reading it!

I like your style! :-)

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Have a fantastic weekend Yorkie!!! (((HUGS)))

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So how'd the weekend go?


~Never Give Up ~
2019
Mar BD
June BD
Dec Aow/xgf
2020
Jan he wants D
Feb he flys2 ow
Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn
Apr he leaves for work until Nov
Oct D FINAL 2020
Living MY Happiest Life Ever
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