Originally Posted by Rex11031
Question...trying to follow the DB rules while living in same house but in separate bedrooms, I'm currently renovating a bathroom and I'm nearly done. She said today "Upstairs bathroom is looking good ...I can help you pick out mirror and lighting". I very much want to say "[censored] off!", but that doesn't align with the DB Rules....so what do I say?


Tempting..... She just ripped your heart out your a$$holre in a very legalistic, matter of fact manner from her BD email, now she wants to "play house" with you still? I would question her motif, and if her picking out a bathroom design benefits her for unobvious reasons.

The vets here can correct me with a 2×4 but I would just reply.

W: "Upstairs bathroom is looking good ...I can help you pick out mirror and lighting".

H: "That is something a Wife does with her Husband, and since you fired me as your Husband.. No.."

Or the shorter version. H: "Thanks but I already decided."

Remember its your house too. Don't let her cake eat.