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Originally Posted by Ready2Change

If needed, this works:

H:"Made arrangements with my parents. Don't worry about it any more."

The last part is important. She will start to think about the decision she just made. She will start to worry about it.

Love it!! Sent.

She replied “Okay” and “Are they gonna be there when I swing by home to feed my horse?”

Not sure how to respond, Should I take them and leave before she gets home?


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H:"We will be leaving at X:15PM"


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Originally Posted by Ready2Change

H:"We will be leaving at X:15PM"

She got home a half hour ago. I had just taken a shower and got dressed, looking really sharp, with a drop of cologne.

She started asking me questions like are you going out, are you meeting someone? I just said I was invited to go do something.


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Originally Posted by Ready2Change
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Should I say anything when she leaves or should I leave first?


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Originally Posted by curtis7
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
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Should I say anything when she leaves or should I leave first?

She left and just called me on her way there, here was the exchange:
WW: “What the F is going on?” She had rage in her voice.
LBH: “I don’t know what you mean, help me understand.”
LBH: “I’m busy, can we talk about this another time.”
WW: “No, we need to talk about this now.”
LBH: “I would like to talk another time when you’re not so upset.”
WW: “When I’m not upset? When you F’n stalk me?”
LBH: “I’m sorry, help me understand what you mean by that?”
WW: “Bye, Curtis” in a condescending tone and hung up.

This must be how she amps herself up for a late night tryst. Making LBH out to be the enemy.

Any recommended action to take after this?


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Just let it be. I like how you responded.


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Pack her $hit and move it into the garage. That will show her you know what’s going on and you won’t put up with her bull $hit.

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Originally Posted by Ready2Change

Just let it be. I like how you responded.

Will do, I’m out to dinner and going to enjoy a nice meal. Feeling pretty good about myself right now. I would say she definitely noticed this 180, but it might just send her over the edge.


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Originally Posted by LH19
Pack her $hit and move it into the garage. That will show her you know what’s going on and you won’t put up with her bull $hit.

HaHa LH19...still not ready to take that leap.


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PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18
PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19
R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20
W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
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