Summer vacation is officially started here in my country; I'm working day time and the language learning is still going on. Last weekend, we went to a movie together, before it, we had lunch together. Noticed that when we met, husband smiled at me, that was... for years, I did not see him with such an easy and gentle attitude.
But apparently, he is not moving home, he bought a new tv for his apartment, he told me so. I try to be cool and act like it won't bother me whether he's coming home or not. Honestly, been through all these, I really enjoy and appreciate the time and life I have right now.
I'm praying and submit to God, He's got the best plan !
Sorry H doesn’t appear to be coming home at the moment. Don’t worry about trying to be cool about it - you are cool about it. You know you got this. And so very right, God has the best plan.
(((Babe)))
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
I had test last Saturday of French, I did good and I'm heading to the next level next week. Everything is fine except the heat of summer...
Husband is more and more calm, when he looked at me, it's different, the person I knew is coming back somehow changed a bit. I hope he is mature, contented and with peace.
He refused to have contact of physical last two years, but recently he would smile at me, when I hold his hand these days, he holds back. I think things are moving in a positive way. Time is in the hands of my Lord, I won't push anyone !
Congratulations on moving to the next level on the French language.
The heat of summer is hitting a lot of us. It's terrible here and rain is something we could use a lot of .
Sounds like your h is settling down a bit and slowly, but surely returning to the land of the living.
Keep up the good work.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
It's husband's birthday, we spent the weekend at east coast as we did every year. He is returning very very slowly but still in certain way, I see the teenage behavior...
This is 5th year post bombed (wow !) how time flies... look back, think I realized what husband said at that time - 'I need time and space !'; just at that moment we the LBS were panic and shocked, for me it came from no where, out of the blue, but for him, it was brewing for a while.
I don't see the plan that he is moving back home, but it's fine, the time is in Lord's hand. I enjoy the peaceful life I'm having now.
The sky and the big blue ocean are so amazing, am grateful for everything and Lord's salvation.
He told me, he would ride his motorbike to any place by himself, to the mountain, to the small village. He thought it would be fun but the truth is he was exhausted (laugh) he is experiencing the time alone and re-live like a young man, young enough to be a teenager...
It sounds like he was having fun, but it is not, I think he is processing the 'growing up' AGAIN. It's a pity that his parents did not offer him such space. I am practicing seeing things and feel the feeling from his perspective now.
You are doing great and yes, your h is starting to grow up. Continue giving him time and space.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Hi Everyone, yesterday, we give the down payment to car dealer. Husband finally made up his mind, we are going to have a new car
Two weeks ago, he rented a car and took me to countryside, to the places we visited 6 years ago right before the timing that he bombed me. Like all the memories are stopped at the point and things are restored from there... did not expect he would rent the car for weekend.
He would text me, reply on time, come home during weekend, smile at me, get me gifts (i pad, candles I like, snacks...)
He told me he's been thinking seriously about job changing, I listened and validated (am praying for him that Lord would definitely lead him)
Wow! A new car! That's wonderful! Sounds like he is slowly inching his way back to reality and to you. Keep up the good work.
How are you doing?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
