As you are aware, we have had an upgrade to the system. When the upgrade took place, the "notify" button disappeared. If you need to contact a moderator, please click on the "report" button and state what you need in the way of assistance.
If you type an SOS in a posting, the moderators may not see it right away. We make every effort to visit the threads, but there are times when your SOS may get overlooked and your requested action may not take place for an hour or more.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.