You continue to amaze me, Lady V. A flirting course and all this dating.......you are just fabulous!
I liked what you said about dating myself. It reminds me of a funny meme I saw the other day on facebook which said something about how I think I've found the one...I'm dating myself and it is going REALLY well. I thought YES! I've been doing this for awhile now without realizing it and it does feel good. I'm not waiting around for men to ask me out, I'm going out and doing things with friends and with Sparky (who does ask me out) and family and just living life. So, dating oneself is a GREAT thing! I highly recommend it.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
Creating and breaking the barriers to the opposite sex. A barrier is different from a boundary, a barrier is a hurdle to flirting, a boundary is the limitation. It's like having a car and not turning on the engine (barrier) as opposed to driving writhing the speed limit (boundary).
Sometime the peeps here have not opened the garage door or even sat in the drivers seat for a long time even if the co driver is now in another car.
We all have bad driving habits to unlearn but generally here DB tools create better drivers.
Flirting step 1 comfort with eye contact. I have stopped making eye contact with just about every guy I am attracted to. In fact this creates problems, it's not shyness but guilt or shame. Unworthiness.
So I am practicing eye contact. If others want to try it then there are YouTube practice posts for maintaining eye contact. To begin with it was weird and felt like forever even though it's only 10 sec. That's only the beginning. Eye contact isn't creepy staring it's done with a twinkle. And with men then holding eye contact has to be a minimum of 10 secs in flirting.
Completely unrelated I have started to do compound muscle exercises in the gym. Gosh my pull ups are pathetic.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
I've used the PB Blaster and it works beautifully. Dawgs is right...it is good stuff.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.