Simon created this thread back in 2008. Since that time, we have had several purging of threads due to space issues on the main server. Unfortunately the thread links listed on Simon's original first posting no longer are available for the readers. Cadet has been kind enough to work with some of us and we have provided the threads that we either created or had permission to repost for your perusal.
To view some of the recreated postings, please scroll down this thread to the July 28, 2015, posting by Cadet and you will see some of the thread links that do work.
The links listed below in this particular posting do not work any longer. They have been purged. Please scroll down to the bottom of the thread for those threads that we were able to recreate. There are a few threads that are no longer posted on the forum because the poster either is no longer posting here or did not wish to have the threads recreated.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.