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He wakes up in the morning
Does his teeth bite to eat and he's rolling
Never changes a thing
The week ends the week begins
She thinks, we look at each other
Wondering what the other is thinking
But we never say a thing
These crimes between us grow deeper
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Take these chances
Place them in a box until a quieter time
Lights down, you up and die
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And all the little ants are marching
Red and black antennas waving
They all do it the same
They all do it the same way


(Dave Matthews Band - abbreviated)

Sums it up really - H and I were just two people too caught up in the daily grind to see what was going on. Also, a good D(M)B song (see how I did that?) to rock out to. Nothing like singing "Take these chan-CES" at the top of your lungs.

Old threads here.

Thanks everyone for your continuing support. Special shout out to Zues, Jim0987, Edz, LisaB, Vanilla, Calibri, Zelda, Ggrass...and of course my sister in all of this, Toots. And you - yeah you reading this - you too. You're a part of my journey, too.


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BD Apr 2014
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Oh, oh! Me, pick me! I get to be the first to post on gan's new thread. Woo hoo!



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First in on Gan's thread!


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
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Thanks a lot Sunny. You always do that...;)


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You have to be sharp to be ahead of me Zues. I have no doubt that you could. But you didn't today......ha!



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You guys crack me up.

So. What should we take about on this thread then?


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Gan, I don't even know what to talk about on my own thread. If I'd give up the notion that H should be nice to me then I have nothing left to say about my sich. What's important to you these days?



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Gan, I hear you. Our sitches get to that point where there's just nothing to report..I waffle on about this and that, but there's very little happening with my sitch just now.

Can I ask you - save me looking back - how far geographically is your H from you now? Are there any non-pursuing opportunities for potential contact approaching??


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
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D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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Love the song, Gan.
What is your biggest goal this year? What is the big thing for your fresh new happiness?


Mid 30's
Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.



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Nothing happening is really something huge.

That is either the dawn before the storm or the dawn storm. Thunder, lightening and lashing rain. Keeps you steady, would love a little of that at the moment.

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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