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IHS?


H:39 W:30
M:4 T:9

05/2018: H says "ILYBNILWY", BD
07/2018: Discovered A, confronted
09/2018: PA + other details emerge; H moved out
12/2018: I filed
03/2019: Divorce finalized
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In-House Separation, I believe

(((TJT)))


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19
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CAGD = Cr@p. At. Going. Dark. = One who struggles to "Go Dark," as defined by author MWD.

CAGD has been coined by our lovely LBWs in June of 2019, who all share a similar struggle of noting when their cohorts should be going dark, however they just can't seem to execute it in their own situation. You ladies are the best :-)

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Could be overdose or odd duck. Where did you see this? I can then try to figure it out for you.


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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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It could be from OwnIt's thread. My understanding is that it's just her name for her STBX.


On BD
H52, W50
T27, M26
S21, D23
BD-9-Mar-16
D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18
I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good.
But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
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Andrew, that is correct. It is not an abbreviation for the forum, but a personal nickname for OwnIt's husband.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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MLT?

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Originally Posted by PLC
MLT?


I would say Mid Life Transition

which is slightly different than a MLC,
much milder and usually experienced by everyone as they go through life.


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Thank you!

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