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As I recall it, she told me that it had been happening for two or three weeks, this "hearing God" or "God talking to her heart" thing. She said that at first, she was able to squelch it, but then it kept getting louder, and louder, and LOUDER until it got to the point it was like He was SCREAMING at her to turn from the destructive path she was on.

Yeah, that got her attention. grin

PRAYER WORKS!!!


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BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)
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Jefe,
I had lost track of your thread. Just wanted to say how happy I am for you. I'm glad that your wife has been remorseful. I hope your heart can heal.


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D: 14
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BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!
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congratulations Jefe on getting your wife back. I hope that everything works out for you in the long term and you both manage to make this work going forward. I haven't posted on your threads but recently I have been reading through some of your older stuff up until now and I have to say that you are an inspiration. Good luck for the future and keep us updated on how everything is going. I think everyone reading your latest news is very happy for you.


BD - 30TH JAN 2015
S - 30TH JAN 2015
PA CONFIRMED - 16TH FEB 2015 (SINCE AT LEAST OCT 2014)
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W: 28
T: 10yrs
M: 4.5yrs
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Jefe, I'm so pleased for you guys! Now then, heed all of the advice that there needs to be some hard piecing work done between you to rebuild a sustainable M for the longer term.

Hope all goes well with your W moving back in my friend! :-)


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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Congrats! Don't lose sight of who you are and what you need!


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction



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Thank you, Twin & Toots. You are correct!

A should not forget Ahoy, Thank you.

Alpha99, You're very kind, I certainly didn't feel like it most days.




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M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
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Jefe

That my friend is great news, you worked so hard and from when you came here to where you are now, you did a TON of work man. Kudos.

Keep focus, do not stop, you still have a ways to go, but congratulations on this victory!


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Way to go, Jefe!

I think it is a good time to pull out the 5LL book and for you two to do the self-quiz together. Slowly draw her into a partnership on rebuilding your M into a solid and healthy one. I'd go with the 5LL book as a first step.

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Great news Jefe, however, has she said anything about counseling?

That is a definite must. She needs a roadmap to follow.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Jefe, this is excellent news! I'm so happy for you.


Me: 30
H: 35
M: 5 years
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Signs of MLC started Feb 2014
BD - PA July 2014
Piecing/reconciling late July 2014
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