Thanks so much for sharing, Love2surf. As a newcomer I've enjoyed reading success stories, it makes me feel hopeful - and I especially appreciated your story because it's good to know that even if things don't work out in the marriage, DB is *still* worthwhile in terms of improving your life. The last month and a half has been one of the most horrible periods of my life, and there have been so many times when I felt like it will never get better. I seemed to be spiralling downwards until I read DR last month. I'm still really new so I'm still learning the techniques, and while I feel a lot better than I did last month, there's a scared part of me that worries 'what if it doesn't work.' So it's really refreshing and uplifting to hear your story and know that even if it doesn't work in terms of the relationship, that doesn't mean it won't help me live a happier life! Thank you!
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
Hello Surf. Thank you so much for posting your success story. Very inspirational to me as I'm learning to let my M go. One question... did you detach/let go of your M very long before you decided to D?
Thank you again and best to you and yours .
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014