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Wife Filed for Divorce, Need Advice to Reconcile #2514272
12/05/14 07:16 PM
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Hosea68 Offline OP
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My wife has fallen under the sway of a bunch of false friends who have twisted her loyalty away from me. She has filed for divorce and tells mutual friends that she still loves me and hopes for a possible future where we can be restored "when we're healthy" - but she refuses to have any communication with me at all.

I want to believe that there is hope for restoration and reconciliation.

I'm looking for any advice that you can give on this...


-- Therefore, behold, I will hedge up thy way with thorns, and make a wall, that she shall not find her paths. - Hosea 2:6
Re: Wife Filed for Divorce, Need Advice to Reconcile [Re: Hosea68] #2514752
12/07/14 12:10 PM
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Welcome to the board

Get out and GAL.

DETACH.


Believe none of what she says and half of what she does.

Have NO EXPECTATIONS.

Take care of yourself, breathe, eat, sleep, exercise.

You are on moderation right now on the forum.
SO post in small frequent posts until you get off of it.

Your W is giving you a GIFT.
THE GIFT OF TIME.

USE it wisely.

Knowledge is Power - Sir Francis Bacon


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: Wife Filed for Divorce, Need Advice to Reconcile [Re: Cadet] #2515223
12/08/14 08:58 PM
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Hosea68 Offline OP
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I am not sure what some of your acronyms are because I'm new.

What is "GAL"?

And how would you suggest using my time?


-- Therefore, behold, I will hedge up thy way with thorns, and make a wall, that she shall not find her paths. - Hosea 2:6
Re: Wife Filed for Divorce, Need Advice to Reconcile [Re: Hosea68] #2516900
12/13/14 06:29 AM
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Hi Hosea68.

Sorry if no one has posted in a few days. I hope you linger and read through these forums. There is a lot of wisdom.

I just found out my DH has filed. I am so hurt... what timing?!


GAL - Get a Life

I'm trying to figure stuff out in a hurry so I hope you have time, friends and faith to guide you through this. Believe it will all work out for the good.

In His Love

VGE1

Romans 8:28

Re: Wife Filed for Divorce, Need Advice to Reconcile [Re: vge1] #2516960
12/13/14 02:44 PM
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Post in the newcomers section and give some background. You will get more responses there.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction




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