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#2505678 11/09/14 01:55 AM
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When and how do you transition from LRT??? I have been at this for about 2 1/2 months.


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You are in LRT?

And you want to know when to leave it?

When their actions and words match.

Until then stay in LRT.


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I'm sorry, but I don't understand. I have been in LRT since before September. His words and actions tend to match... I think... But at this point, we are still living together, separate beds, getting along well in a friend or family member kind of way... keeping it light.... just wondering...


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Well DB101 is to do what works.

Personally I think it would be nice if he was to pursue you.
LRT is the stopping of all pursuit.

So I think you are asking if you should pursue him.

I would suggest that you mirror him, and work it from there.
Another words if he pursues you then you let him.

You havent given a lot of information about your sich here, so
I am guessing tbh.
Sandi posted to you that it would be nice to know
your story.
Post it as a new topic in Newcomers!

Every sich is different and ultimately it is up
to you to decide.

It sounds like someone is depressed.
Is that him?


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I am so sorry, Cadet. I did not see this until just now, and I don't want to hijack this conversation, so I did post some under newcomers. Thanks for listening... kinda!


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... and what is tbh?


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Originally Posted By: T-Mom
... and what is tbh?

tbh = to be honest

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Thanks! :o) ... and please, with me... always be honest!


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Originally Posted By: T-Mom
Thanks! :o) ... and please, with me... always be honest!

Obviously you dont know too much about cadets, they are required to be honest.

It is part of the HONOR CODE!

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I guess I don't know too much about Cadets! LOL.... Marines, yes....

LOVE a good Honor Code!


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