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LRT transition #2505678
11/09/14 01:55 AM
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When and how do you transition from LRT??? I have been at this for about 2 1/2 months.


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Re: LRT transition [Re: T-Mom] #2506819
11/12/14 10:58 PM
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You are in LRT?

And you want to know when to leave it?

When their actions and words match.

Until then stay in LRT.


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Re: LRT transition [Re: Cadet] #2508432
11/18/14 08:34 PM
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I'm sorry, but I don't understand. I have been in LRT since before September. His words and actions tend to match... I think... But at this point, we are still living together, separate beds, getting along well in a friend or family member kind of way... keeping it light.... just wondering...


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Re: LRT transition [Re: T-Mom] #2510922
11/25/14 06:28 PM
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Well DB101 is to do what works.

Personally I think it would be nice if he was to pursue you.
LRT is the stopping of all pursuit.

So I think you are asking if you should pursue him.

I would suggest that you mirror him, and work it from there.
Another words if he pursues you then you let him.

You havent given a lot of information about your sich here, so
I am guessing tbh.
Sandi posted to you that it would be nice to know
your story.
Post it as a new topic in Newcomers!

Every sich is different and ultimately it is up
to you to decide.

It sounds like someone is depressed.
Is that him?


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Re: LRT transition [Re: Cadet] #2511248
11/26/14 08:18 PM
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I am so sorry, Cadet. I did not see this until just now, and I don't want to hijack this conversation, so I did post some under newcomers. Thanks for listening... kinda!


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Re: LRT transition [Re: T-Mom] #2511252
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... and what is tbh?


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Re: LRT transition [Re: T-Mom] #2511408
11/27/14 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted By: T-Mom
... and what is tbh?

tbh = to be honest

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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2183063&fpart=1


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Re: LRT transition [Re: Cadet] #2511503
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Thanks! :o) ... and please, with me... always be honest!


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Re: LRT transition [Re: T-Mom] #2511635
11/28/14 01:02 PM
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Originally Posted By: T-Mom
Thanks! :o) ... and please, with me... always be honest!

Obviously you dont know too much about cadets, they are required to be honest.

It is part of the HONOR CODE!

smile smile smile


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Re: LRT transition [Re: Cadet] #2511660
11/28/14 02:47 PM
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I guess I don't know too much about Cadets! LOL.... Marines, yes....

LOVE a good Honor Code!


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