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Okay, guys. I'm seeing a side of my H I have NEVER seen before!

He's actually cleaning up his OWN messes! All I've had to do is stand down for a minute and let him handle it!

He just sent me this text:

"I just suspended service on the phone. Do gotta pay for it though. I told them if it wasn't returned soon, then I would call them back and report it stolen."

I wanna pat his as$ all a sudden! laugh


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Pls don't! Nothing good comes of that.

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Originally Posted By: Train
Okay, guys. I'm seeing a side of my H I have NEVER seen before!

He's actually cleaning up his OWN messes! All I've had to do is stand down for a minute and let him handle it!

He just sent me this text:

"I just suspended service on the phone. Do gotta pay for it though. I told them if it wasn't returned soon, then I would call them back and report it stolen."

I wanna pat his as$ all a sudden! laugh


I hope you won't. Please keep this to a courteous "Thank you for handling that," or even a "I knew you could handle that" if you wish. You don't want to give your husband like EXTRA CREDIT, just for doing something you rightfully expect out of him (his fidelity).


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Just sent him that very message, Starsky. smile

Thank you ALL for your feedback - that's exactly what I needed.


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Train,

Patting H's bum will come in all due course! Eyes on the prize!

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Hahahahahaha. Deal, Wonka!! laugh


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Not sure how the other providers do it, but AT&T if I remember correctly classifies it at "lost or stolen." No police report necessary.


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Well, *I* stayed at a Holiday Inn Express once, so there!

ssthhhhsbbbbbtthhhbbbb!!! laugh wink


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You guys are awesome. And I agree that the phone is an insignificant casualty in the grand scheme of things. He *did* get it through AT&T. And that's who he talked to today to suspend service.

He just let me know a little while ago that he received an "info text" from Snapchat (which he and OW used), with OW's name somehow attached to it, informing him that Snapchat now allows messaging.

H wrote to me: "How convenient! I bet she thought I'd message her and you wouldn't find out. So I deleted the app."

I thanked him for letting me know.

For right now, I'm pretty happy with how things are progressing. smile

Thank y'all SO much for your feedback!!!! Hearts to you all.


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Originally Posted By: Train


He just let me know a little while ago that he received an "info text" from Snapchat (which he and OW used), with OW's name somehow attached to it, informing him that Snapchat now allows messaging.

H wrote to me: "How convenient! I bet she thought I'd message her and you wouldn't find out. So I deleted the app."


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