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Originally Posted By: MrBond
But the problem is that you had and continue to have "expectations" of what he should be doing for you or how he should be. You are not letting him be his own man and that's what he doesn't like. Put it this way. Would you like him to tell you what he "expects" out of you? No one wants to live by someone else's expectations.

If he CHOOSES to learn about what you "like" and CHOOSES to act a certain way because it makes you happy, then that's better. But don't have expectations for how you THINK he should be acting.


Thanks. What are some things I can do to show that I am allowing him to be a man ?


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Originally Posted By: RealityTrip
Hi Limbo. Glad you are here. So sorry for all you are going through. Have you read DB or DR yet?


I have not. Income is very limited these days. I am looking to purchase it though the first opportunity I get.


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Just checking in on ya LL.

Hope your doing well, or as well as can be expected anyways.

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Things are pretty much the same. Im letting go...nothing else to do at this point


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