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Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation [Re: job] #2767207
11/02/17 06:37 PM
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Good read! Thanks for bumping this up, job! I needed it today.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state
Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation [Re: BrightFuture] #2767209
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this made me cry like I haven't cried in months. so sad and so true and yes, Cadet, YEARS if ever.


M 20+ T25+
S 15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
H moved out 4/24/15
D Final 12/23/16
When God gives you a new beginning don't repeat the same old mistakes. It's 2020, anything could happen; eat dessert first!!!!
Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation [Re: job] #2767239
11/03/17 03:06 AM
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Originally Posted By: job
How are you? You've not visited in a while. Any pearls of wisdom for the folks who are here?

After 46 days and nights of no food in North Vietnam, the will to survive is strong.

Read the Stockdale paradox

certainly being here on DB - may be your defining moment in life, do not ignore your brutal reality and remember that you will prevail in the end.


Me-66, D33,S32
Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation [Re: Cadet] #2767242
11/03/17 03:14 AM
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Originally Posted By: Cadet
Originally Posted By: job
How are you? You've not visited in a while. Any pearls of wisdom for the folks who are here?

After 46 days and nights of no food in North Vietnam, the will to survive is strong.

Read the Stockdale paradox

certainly being here on DB - may be your defining moment in life, do not ignore your brutal reality and remember that you will prevail in the end.

I couldnt have said it any better - thanks Cadet! smile

Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation [Re: LanceSijan] #2873040
11/23/19 12:06 AM
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Bumping this up for newbies.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation [Re: job] #2873464
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Thanks Job


R 24 years
M 13 years
S10 & S12
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together
Re: His Midlife Crisis ... An Explanation [Re: job] #2877671
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Wow. It's eye-opening how much of myself, and my own MLC, I saw through reading that article. It was spot on.

Where was it published?

Edited to add: Never mind, found it:




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