Alamo, I'm sorry about your breakup, but you are not sounding healthy. I think you might want to just be on your own for a while, and work on developing your sense of self independent of a relationship.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
Instead of giving her space, she might actually think that I simply don't care anymore.
You've already showed her you care, right? She should know, and if she doesn't that's her problem. If you feel the need to show you care all the time, then you're trying to fix HER (potential) problem. That will make it hard to give her space. If she initiates you can show you care, without pressuring.
Together for 8,5 years. S2 Interest in OM. She left 29.09.12 b/c we couldn't work things out. No signs of OM, not digging. Living in seperate homes, sharing custody.
