Not upset at all. This is a legitimate question. I check in on where he is in the tunnel from an academic perspective.
Of course, when I see glimpses of the man that I married I wish that I could turn back the hands of time or wave a magic wand to make things all better. After that flash is over, I go back to the cold harsh realities of never being able to go back to Kansas again, per se and knowing that too much hurt has been inflicted to try to sweep away with a water color brush. LOL.
I question because, I like many others who have dawned on this doorstep wonder if this is the case amongst all cases that would be successful.
I am ok without him, really I am. I have adjusted. I miss him sometimes but I realize that he is not the same person ... neither am I.