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180 = Another Technique In DB
4Cs - Cool, Calm, Collected and Confident
ACOA = Adult Child of an Alcoholic
ADDY = Address: Email, Snail Mail, Home, Office
AOBM = Alien on Break Moment
AOM = Almost Other Man
AOS = Acts of Service
APT = Apartment
ATTY = Attorney
AWGTCHM = Michele's book, A Woman's Guide to Changing Her Man
BB = Bulletin Board
Big D = Divorce
BIL = Brother-in-law
BTO = Big time operator
BTW = By The Way
D = Divorce Or Daughter
DB = Divorce Busting (Techniques and book by Michele)
DB'ers = Divorce Busters (People At This Site)
DB'n = Divorce Busting (the technique)
Dbing = Divorce Busting (the technique)
DD = Darling Daughter
DH = Dear Husband or Deadbeat Husband
DITHL = deer in the headlights
DR = "The Divorce Remedy" (Techniques and book by Michele)
EA = Emotional affair
EOM = Emotional Other Many
F2F = Face to Face
FAQ = Frequently Answered Questions
FN forum = For Newcomers forum
FOO = Family Of Origin
FWIW = For What Its Worth
FYI = For Your Information
GAL = Get A Life (aka "Make Yourself Happy For A Change")
Going Dark = no contact.
GH = Ghost Husband (Not Really Here Any More)
GW = Ghost Wife (Not Really Here Any More)
H = Husband
HD = High Desire
HEA = Happily Ever After
HOM = Hold Onto Myself
HP = His or her place
HTH = Hope This Helped
HW = Home-Wrecker
IAE = In Any Event
IC = Individual Counselor (or counselling)
ICQ = A chat system which stands for, "I seek you".
ILY = I Love You
ILYBNILWY = I love you but not in love with you
IM = Instant Message
IMHO = In My Humble Opinion
INS Forum = I Need Support Forum
IOW = In Other Words
KLA = Michele's Keeping Love Alive audio program
KLA forum = Keeping Love Alive Discussion Group forum
KWIM = Know what I mean
LBS = Left Behind Spouse
LD = Low Desire
LDEA long distance emotional affair
LF = Lady Friend
LL = Love Languages
LMAO = Laughing My A$$ Off
LOL = Laughing Out Loud
LR = Last Resort (technique in DB)
LRT = Last Resort Technique (What to do when all else fails)Explained in detail on page 177 in Michele's "Divorce Busting" book
MF = Man Friend
MFC = Messenger 1st Class
MIL = Mother-in-law
ML = Making Love
MLC = Midlife Crisis
MP = My Place
NML = No man's land
M/V = From the book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
NPA = Not particularly attractive
NRG = Energy
OEA = Online Emotional Affair
OG = Other Guy
OM = Other man
OOM = Online Other Man
OOW = Online Other Women
OP = Other Person
OR = Our Relationship
OW, Ow = Other Woman
PA = Physical Affair
PMA = Positive Mental Attitude
POV = Point Of View
PT = Physical Touch
PTSD = Post-traumatic stress disorder
QT = Quality Time
R = Relationship
RBTL = Read Between The Lines
RIR = Room I Rent
ROFL = Rolls On Floor Laughing
S = Son
SAFE = Stay Away From Ex
SAM = silly alien monkey
SBT = Solution-oriented Brief Therapy (kind of therapy Michele does)
SIL = Sister-in-law
SIT or SITCH = Situation
SITD = Still In The Dark
SO = Significant Other
SL = Sex Life
SOB = Son of a Bitch
SSW = Sisterhood of Separate Women (variations could be SDW, SSM, SDM, etc.)
STBW - Soon to be wife
STBX = Soon To Be EX
STBXOM = Soon to be ex-other man (or guy)
STBXOW = Soon to be ex-other women
TMI = Too much information
UCL = Unconditional Love
W = Wife
w/ = With
WAS = Walk Away Spouse
WAW = Walk Away Wife (a syndrome Michele explains in her article on this site)
WB = Write Back
WOA = Words of Affirmation
WP = Warrior Princess
WTF = What the…, Why the…, When the…, Where the…,
WTG = Way To Go
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Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Virginia] #2189395
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Got another one for you...

PG = Pregnant


Think about it...if you met a potential mate who was nothing but a bundle of needs, would YOU be attracted to them?
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Psych77] #2218282
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Can anybody explain what DAM is please?

Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Denton] #2218354
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Well, generally male who is not the sharpest tool in the shed.


dbmod
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: dbmod] #2250120
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STFU ?


ME 31 / W 29
M 7 / T 13
S 3 / S 5
NOT HAPPY 11/11
BOMB 12/27/11
MOVED OUT 2/12
THINKS D WOULD BE BEST FOR HER 5/14/12
W Files D 6/24/12
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: shockeddad] #2250261
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Originally Posted By: shockeddad
STFU ?

Shut the %@#$ up.
IE. get duct tape and put it over your mouth.


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2250653
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BITS?


TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: bustingout] #2250657
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Originally Posted By: bustingout
BITS?


"Brothers in the $hits"


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: InAPickle] #2257960
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What does ALASKAN mean?


Me 34 W 32
D 9 S 6
M: 9 years
T: 12
Bomb: 02/11/12
EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing
Moved out: Oct 2012
Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13

Don't just GAL, find yourself and be happy
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: breakdownbill] #2258064
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Originally Posted By: breakdownbill
What does ALASKAN mean?

I think you are refering to 25's signature.
Her husband went to Alaska during his MLC.

She could maybe explain it better or in more detail.
Or read her old threads.


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2258458
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Cadet--

thanks for this and ALL you do on the boards!


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2258510
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Thanks for that Cadet - I was racking my brain thinking what it meant.

Bill smile


Me 34 W 32
D 9 S 6
M: 9 years
T: 12
Bomb: 02/11/12
EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing
Moved out: Oct 2012
Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13

Don't just GAL, find yourself and be happy
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2265252
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DR book?


M 39, W 34
M 15
S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6
Separated: 7/2/2012
Served: 7/10/2012
Divorced 11/5/2012
(NA) Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: NASCARDaddy] #2265358
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Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2266068
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This thread is VERY helpful! Thank you!


W (me): 40
H (WAS): 39
M: 4
Separated: almost a year
(Blended family with kids on both sides, none together)
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2285024
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what does DO mean?
what does LSL mean?


M:33y/o
H:33y/o
M:7year
No kids
Speech of "I don't know if I love you" on July, 2012
Found EA on July, 2012
H started to stay at different places from August, 2012
H asked D on August, 2012
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: summersnow] #2285322
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I found them as not abbreviation (DO and LSL). Never mind!


M:33y/o
H:33y/o
M:7year
No kids
Speech of "I don't know if I love you" on July, 2012
Found EA on July, 2012
H started to stay at different places from August, 2012
H asked D on August, 2012
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2290160
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So happy someone pored this. I was really struggling trying to read everyone's post.

Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Crying out loud] #2300053
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Can someone tell me what SSM stands for?


M-59
H-58
2 S, 1 D
2 Gr. Ch.
T 20 YRS
M 17 YRS
ILYBINILWY 4/21/12
Caught H and OW 5/25/12
H Left 6/5/12

"Do not regret growing older...It is a privilege denied to many."
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Snookee] #2300054
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Originally Posted By: Snookee
Can someone tell me what SSM stands for?


Be glad you don't know. It stands for "Sex Starved Marriage".

Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Snookee] #2300286
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Originally Posted By: Snookee
Can someone tell me what SSM stands for?

SSM = Sex Starved Marriage, MWD wrote a few books about it and their is a forum here for that issue.


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Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2309350
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Ca someone tell me where to find what the last resort technique is? I have D. Book but not DR yet. It is on order though

Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Carole1213] #2309351
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Found it.

Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2329502
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What does "BD" mean? I found out and have promptly forgotten it again.

I know that it'll be one of those "Doh" moments! (ie Being Dopey!)


Me: 42 W: 40
M: 18 T: 20
D13 D10 S7
BD: 8/2012
Still living together
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Alias71] #2329504
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BD = Bomb Day!!

Typical. Doh!


Me: 42 W: 40
M: 18 T: 20
D13 D10 S7
BD: 8/2012
Still living together
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Alias71] #2345980
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What is PING1?


Me: 30
H: 29
M: 2 yrs
T: 5 years
BD: 12/14/12
Divorce talk begins 1/6/13
I filed: 5/20/13 -- no contact since
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Dubious Hills] #2376657
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MLC?

Also, there are several posts here that the original post (OP) hasn't updated. Can you look thru these and do so. it would greatly help the nOObs here.


"Do what you can
With what you have
Where you are"
- Theo. Roosevelt

M:40
W:40
D13, D11
M: 11/1997
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: mathwichi] #2379109
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Originally Posted By: mathwichi
MLC?

Also, there are several posts here that the original post (OP) hasn't updated. Can you look thru these and do so. it would greatly help the nOObs here.


MLC = Mid Life Crisis

I doubt that the original poster is going to update her post.
It has been here for 4 years now.


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2379314
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How about TC for DB telephone coaching?


Me: 43 W: 44 T: 13 M: 8
BD: 01/26/2013
IC: 03/19/2013
S: 04/10/2013
TC: 08/14/2013
DF: 09/15/2013
DR: WAW LRT
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Dragon Heart] #2379681
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Moderators can't update?


"Do what you can
With what you have
Where you are"
- Theo. Roosevelt

M:40
W:40
D13, D11
M: 11/1997
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2381706
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MBR?

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NLW?


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Me: 37 W: 37
M: 11
D:5 S:2
IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13
EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13
W moved out 05/14
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: S4tk] #2411341
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What does "2x4" mean?


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Fight4MyWife] #2411517
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Originally Posted By: Fight4MyWife
What does "2x4" mean?


= whack, wake up and listen cause a big piece of lumber just hit you in the head! smile smile smile


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: CRPL] #2411518
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Originally Posted By: CRPL
MBR?


= Master Bed Room


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: S4tk] #2411524
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Originally Posted By: S4tk
NLW?


= I am thinking this is the name of a poster here,

or

it could mean Non Lethal Weapon


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2425001
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Can anyone explain: TA?


Me: 36
H: 36
No kids
EA/PA confirmed: 02-Jan-2014
Separate bedrooms/still living together


Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: TipAnna] #2426108
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Originally Posted By: TipAnna
Can anyone explain: TA?

I believe it is YOUR name TipAnna = TA

Of course maybe it is teaching assistant or something else.
Where was it used?


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2426669
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It IS my name..haha..I'm over thinking everything these days..


Me: 36
H: 36
No kids
EA/PA confirmed: 02-Jan-2014
Separate bedrooms/still living together


Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Virginia] #2456184
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what is piecing??


Me 42 W:35
M: 14yrs T:15yrs
D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs
BD: "I want a D"09/03/14
Sep: 30/06/14

Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: rayzzz] #2456408
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Originally Posted By: rayzzz
what is piecing??

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=34&page=1

Trying to put your marriage back together again when both parties are committed to it.


Me-65, D32,S31
Re: Abbreviations ... updated [Re: Cadet] #2456774
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This is a big help

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What is ICBI & LSL?
Thx 4 this list ! Very much needed
p

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pbetra
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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017

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I think I have to review these each day lately. I get so many of them wrong...lol


Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015
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Originally Posted By: BigMac
I think I have to review these each day lately. I get so many of them wrong...lol


So funny you should say that BigMac. Recently, I have begun to leave an open tab next to the forum post!! laugh

oh, just realized that you are new. welcome (sorry that you are here). everyone can relate and are wonderful!! - lots of resources to check on as well. good luck & take care

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M: 15 yrs (in 2014)
BD: 6/03/2014
Infidelity ('known' from July 2014)
Denied PA Feb 2015
2 leave Mar 2015 (left early Summer). Some contact.
Back briefly 2017 (after family death)
Separated 2017

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What's WW mean?


Me:39 Her:35
Daughter: 6
Married: 11
Together: 13
D-day: 5.7.14
She left: 1.26.14
Status: Separated
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What's this Dobson letter that people mention every now and them?


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
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"What's this Dobson letter that people mention every now and them?"

It's in the book "Love Must be Tough". However it doesn't necessarily apply to your situation because you neglected her needs and just cared about your own.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER
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Er thanks for the first part of the answer. I was just wondering that's all.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
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How about POSOM and POSOW? I'm fond of these.


M 16 T 17
W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14
ILYBNIL 5/14
A discovered 6/14
D papers served via USPS 8/14
Filed my response 9/14
D final 5/15...
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HTIYMWTAI = How to improve your marriage without talking about it.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
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I guess it will take a while to get the hang of this. I keep coming back to find out what things mean. :-)


Me: 53, Wife: 49
Separated November 24, 2014
I think we are piecing. She wants to stay married/committed & LAT (Living Apart, Together)
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Hi LovinUs. I copied them to a txt file and kept it open beside web page. I don't tend to use them myself precisely for that reason.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
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Originally Posted By: Vince H
What's WW mean?


Did we ever get an answer on this one?


M44 H37
D13 S8 S6
Married 14
W is stay at home mom
ILYBNIWY:9-28-14
A started 04/2014
OM confirm 11/24/2014
Admit PA 01/05/2015
09/11/2015 W file for D and wants the moon
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Originally Posted By: Hurt06
Originally Posted By: Vince H
What's WW mean?


Did we ever get an answer on this one?


Wayward Wife - a wife invoved in an A

Check out sandi's series of threads starting with For Newcomer LBH with a Wayward Wife

Mandatory reading for all those concerned.


M: 57 / EW: 52
T: 21, M: 8
S: 18, S: 15
Bomb: 1 Jun 14
EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
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