M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
What caused me to take notice? The truck that hit me. It shouldn't of took that, but it did.
Who has more value? Me, because I still love her, and want the life I know we can have. I can see what we can be. There are a million reasons, but I am not sure I am telling you what you want to hear.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair
She doesn't talk about R. We never have, other than D-day. I have been waiting to validate her feelings, but she never shows any. Hiding like she has done for years.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair
Who has more value? Me, because I still love her, and want the life I know we can have. I can see what we can be.
How come your wife can't see it? Hint: because you are pursuing her.
It's a two pronged approach - be the man she fell in love with and is beneficial for you while at the same time giving her space (detaching, dropping the rope, GAL, being mysterious). Let her pursue you. Let her feel the space. Learn how women think and communicate.
Don't let her mind read or put up with crap behavior (affairs fall in this category). Women tie their feelings of love to respect, if she can walk all over you she can't respect you.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Shake things up? Well, last week when I went out, and did not tell her where I was going, I took the massage oil/personal lubricant out of her medicine cabinet with me. Left label by sink so I know she saw it.
No reaction, not a word.
H-40 W-38 Together-20 Married-12 boy-7 girl-3 bomb-9/17/10 No papers live together No affair
How is she treating you? How's your sex life? Does she talk to you? Does she share her feelings?
Quote:
The man she fell in love with was a very pursuing man, that is how I got her.
Describe your dating, what did you do?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
