If we start working on M, do we bring to kids into the picture?
Or should we just do one on one stuff?
I don't want to give the kids false hopes. D5 still talks about all of us going away on vacation again someday.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Gr8, I understand that getting over trust issues due to infidelity are very hard, but it can and has been done thousands of times! hang in there. Not many will get that chance.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
I still have to protect my kids as if I am bringing a new women in my life. I need to feel comfortable about the R before doing family stuff.
Time to pick up the kiddies. gr8 is out of here
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Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
My W doesn't use that word anymore, and she's wearing her rings.
When she used that word, she wasn't serious, and she wasn't feeling it.
Point taken.
Mine is not a SW fan and she hates feelings.
Now that's a red flag for me...
As it should be.
A couple of years ago she threw out my SW figurine collection and told me that she won't make any more dinner if I don't stop playing Jedi Knight on time to eat.
Also she asked me to use headphones after she goes to bed - said that the light sabre sounds are worse than smoke detector alarm.
I just did not understand.
I was only allowed to watch Carrie Fisher documentary on Biography Channel.
Your wife likes cars and you play with dolls?!?!?!?!
Please don't tell me you ask her to call you Pookie Wookie?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
