How are the kids fairing through all of this? I'm so afraid of what's to come. My kids are older, but they're all fragile. I've learned so much from you and you don't know it. I'm regretful for the pain I've caused him and deeply, depply hurt that he thinks this is the only way out.
Me 40 H 42 S 16 D 15 Together for 23 years Married 18 Blow up 8/21/10 DBomb-but hiding for the kids sake? 8/25/10
d1992 ill check in with you next week im awayfor the weekend
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
I contacted the mediator yesterday through email to find out the address b/c W said she was moving locations. We are(now were) supposed to meet this Saturday withthe mediator.
I find out that the mediator cancelled the meeting and W never told me. WTF!
I couldn't let this slide. I emailed W last night about the kids and then wrote to her about her communication problems.
She has mis-communication several times over the past few weeks and I didn't say anything.
I told her she was the onbe who suggested we communicate better and I know I have.
I told her i wasn't angry b/c that would mean I cared. I told her it was frustrating to me since she is the one suggesting better communication.
I didn't go into specific times she mis-communicated.
I then said to her if we don't have an appointment sheduled by next week, I would go file myself.
I am not angry, I just would like to be able to move on with my life. Her being on the mortgage is preventing me from doing so.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
I see your point puppy. I did want to convey that point to her. I have checked out.
looking forward to better things.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Is there any way to pre-arrange w/mediator that you are advised in any changes in the schedule? Since W can't be counted on to keep you apprised, maybe that would be your best option?
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
W copied the email she sent to mediator saying the 18th is good for her. Didn't confirm with me to see if it was good for me.
Anyway, so it is now the 18th.
I need a massage!
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
