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Any update, Gr8?


M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

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Hey, welcome back.

I sent email out to her yesterday. I kow she got it.

She did call for the kids last night and even Monday night.

Today I dropped the kids off Get them big hugs and kisses and wished them a good time. They were both giddy this morning na ddidn't want to leave me.

We had an awesome three days together.

I gave W the choice of day to see mediator.

It just amazes me that you give someone everything the ask for and even do all the work for them and they can't even make a simple decision on which day to pick.

It may anger her that I sent that email but That's the way I feel and I have stopped concerning myself with HER feelings.

Headed to the concert Saturday night Toby/Trace.(8/21)

What a way to celebrate my one year anniversary!


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gr8,

They're paralyzed by fear. They have a fantasy view of life without us, but they instinctively know that any real action will jeopardize this fantasy.

Mind reading I know, but pretty obvious with my W.

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They're paralyzed by fear.


I know the feeling. I acted this way the first three months.

Sink or swim.

.............................the water feels great!


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Not much to report about the W. No reply to the suggested meeting days for the mediator.

D5 start Kindergarten in three weeks so I had to make arrangements to have her dropped off at school. My little guy will continue to go to the same daycare.

I thought I would be out a lot of money for child care but it seems I will be reducing that cost starting in September.
That was a big relief for me.

Looking forward to have them both in school.

Although it is hard at times taking care of two little ones by myself I feel a sense of an accomplishment.

I'm feeling pretty good today, looking back at all the fears I had over the past year and addressing each one.

Going to celebrate my one year anniversary with a concert tomorrow night.


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Keep-up the great work with your kids Gr8. You are doing a nice job.

If W doesn't respond about a date for mediation, you should just tell the mediator your dates and let them schedule it with your W. Then she will HAVE to respond.

The anniversaries during this period are very hard. I had my 14th on July 20. I went out for drinks with some friends and then to a club. Stayed out all night and away from W.

Who are you going to the concert with? I hope you have a great time.

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Hey DanF than ks for the props with the kids. If I do hear back by next week I'll call the mediator myself. I don't know why she hasn't replied but she hasn't.



My anniversary is the date my bomb was dropped 8/21. I have taken time this week to review my earlier posts from last year and reflect. My what a difference a year makes.

Funny thing my wedding anniversary is 11/03, the date on my profile. which I officially became a member.

Going to see Toby Keith and Trace Atkins with a new female friend. smile

Should be a great time, the weather is going to cooperate.


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gucci,

meeting cancelled. have you read the updates?

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Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive


Although it is hard at times taking care of two little ones by myself I feel a sense of an accomplishment.

I'm feeling pretty good today, looking back at all the fears I had over the past year and addressing each one.

Going to celebrate my one year anniversary with a concert tomorrow night.



Atta boy, Gr8. Sometimes the view out the windshield is so daunting, that we need to look BACK, out the rear window, to see all that we've accomplished, and rest in it a bit.

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Well, I just want to say that it has been one year since my bomb was dropped and my world didn't end.

For those new here life will get better and to continue to work on yourselves.

Hard work pays off. You may not recognize it but others will.

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