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Just remember, there's nothing wrong with you saying to her -- in response to WHATEVER she brings up -- "I'm just not sure how I feel about that anymore."
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"I'm afraid it's not that easy anymore."
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"I don't know HOW I feel."
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"I'm not sure WHAT I want to do. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with me, and I'll certainly think hard about them."



All very good Puppy.

My mind set going into this meeting is to listen, gather information, and to have a cup of coffee.

Then go home and process the info and make a good sound decision that will be the best for me AND my kids.


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Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
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Just remember, there's nothing wrong with you saying to her -- in response to WHATEVER she brings up -- "I'm just not sure how I feel about that anymore."
or
"I'm afraid it's not that easy anymore."
or
"I don't know HOW I feel."
or
"I'm not sure WHAT I want to do. I appreciate you sharing your thoughts with me, and I'll certainly think hard about them."



All very good Puppy.

My mind set going into this meeting is to listen, gather information, and to have a cup of coffee.

Then go home and process the info and make a good sound decision that will be the best for me AND my kids.




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Thanks PH

You stated you are in the same place I'm at in an earlier post.
That's great for you, it took me a long time to get where I'm at.

I feel better now then I did 10 years ago, PMA baby!

Like Bob Marley sang "Every little thing, is gonna be alright"

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And PDT takes another one long...



Ehh, he's obviously juicin'. Just look how big his HEAD is. wink smirk

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Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive


All very good Puppy.

My mind set going into this meeting is to listen, gather information, and to have a cup of coffee.

Then go home and process the info and make a good sound decision that will be the best for me AND my kids.





BINGO!!!


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uugghhh

W called me b/c she just found opened an email up from me stating there is/was a trip at school for D5 today.

She said please send it to my work email b/c that is the only time she's on the computer. We talked about comunicating such things with a phone call in the future.

Then she says:
"Not to guilt you into coming but S2 was asking if were coming to the party" WTF???

I told her I talk to S2 and that I would be celebrating is Bday over the weekend.

I then said I would call her tomorrow to talk to S2 and wish him a happy Bday and I would see her and Saturday.

She then says "See me Saturday?"
I said yes to meet.
She said not this Saturday it's next Saturday.

I now know she has a difficult time communicating.
She is pushing me futher away.

Why the heck would she bring up the bit about the guilt trip?

So now I have to wait until next Saturday. Frustrating.


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Any thoughts on her saying that comment about S2 wanting me there for Bday?

Yesterday I thought she might want to talk R when we meet. Now I'm not too sure. Especially since she said- In the future when I need to tell her about something with the kids to please call her.

I'll stop mind reading now and take one day at a time b4 I get a 2x4.


I did stand my ground when when spoke today which is a 180 for me.


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I'll stop mind reading now and take one day at a time b4 I get a 2x4.



I was gonna say . . . smirk


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See......People can change and learn. LOL

Back to thoughts about what I'm going to do for me this weekend! cool


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It just dawned on me now that since our meeting is moved to next Saturday, it will be on the 1 year anniversary of the bomb being dropped!

Coincidence???


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