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Originally Posted By: Gardener
...add to the above a phone call from another customer not five minutes ago canceling in order to "cut back" as well.
One door closes, another opens. Talked to a manager in a local premier landscaping company two weeks ago. He called this morning.
I'll be working for them two days a week starting Thursday (three, probably, once I get the okay from a couple of customers to switch them to Saturdays).
Whew.


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Quote:
One door closes, another opens.


That my friend is the best way to look at changes in your life.

For everything that happens in it. smile


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glad to hear it, gardener!!


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Yay from me too!


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Thank you all for that.
How nice.


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how's it going, gardener?!


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hm,
Originally Posted By: hoosiermama
how's it going, gardener?!
Good, thanks. Just caught up with you and posted a reply from a day or two back. Working more, working hard, paying off bills. No real GAL, lately except High School Buddies Reunion last weekend. Tonic for the soul!

Former spouse seems to want to fight my boarder/renter, still wants "a piece of the action" (can anyone say "chutzpah"?), and is wanting to go to court over it and other "modifications"

Oh, well. Except for the expense, I don't care. At all. Period.

Working tomorrow. No weekend plans. Kinda tired and lonely tonight, but just factually so, not wallowing in it. It is what it is right now.
For now.

Thanks for asking.


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you sound good...except for working the weekend!

I can resonate with the "tired and lonely" thing. it's good to be able to identify it without wallowing and getting lost in it, eh?

thanks for sharing your wisdom, btw.


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hm,
Originally Posted By: hoosiermama
you sound good...except for working the weekend!
I can resonate with the "tired and lonely" thing. it's good to be able to identify it without wallowing and getting lost in it, eh?
God, yes
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thanks for sharing your wisdom, btw.
You're welcome.I like you and your insights, too. But, wisdom, shmisdom: some realities and perceptions are just - sometimes painfully - picked up by osmosis in the course of 56 years. cool


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